The 6 Myths that keep women from unleashing…

…the “powerful woman” behind their life, business and dreams are:

Myth #1:  Your life is defined by being the great task-doer!

As a professional woman, you have plenty to do, and have plenty of day-to-day experience getting things done. However, for the most part, I have found these tasks don’t fulfill your vision of success, what you truly want to accomplish. Rather they can leave you feeling unfulfilled, and worse, like you are defined by them – in essence, feeling like you are nothing more than the great task-doer. However, this is a myth because you can create a legacy and your mark, one you can be proud of each and every day. But this requires getting out of the “passenger” seat and into the “driver’s” seat of your life with your hands firmly on the wheel.

Myth #2:  You have to believe everything you think!

As women we are great at creating and spinning stories in our heads. The problem though, is that if these are filled with limiting or negative thoughts, we tend to convince ourselves they are true, and unfortunately, work to meet those unfavorable expectations. Having to believe everything you think is a myth. Because, where do negative thoughts, limiting beliefs, or excuses come from? YOU! So the good news is, you can challenge your thinking and any associated unhealthy behaviors. Your thoughts come with a warranty, and you can exchange them for a more positive or productive one, anytime you want.

Myth #3:  Multi-tasking is the same as planning!

Usually, I find that professional women don’t realize the importance of having a plan outside of their business roles. And because we are naturally good at multi-tasking we have a tendency to think that just because we want to achieve something; we will somehow be able to just fit it, or cram it in, along with everything else we’re juggling. While multi-tasking is a viable skill, it is not the same as having a plan. Being dependent on multi-tasking as a way to plan can quickly leave you overwhelmed and feeling less than successful. To get to your next level – especially if we want to enjoy the journey – you’ll need to have a plan with measurable goals. Otherwise you could end up looking back on your life and saying – “I could have…I should have…or I wish I would have”. Don’t let this be you!

Myth #4:  You can’t say NO and must do it all yourself!

Other people make countless demands on our time and energy. But it’s not just about learning to say “no” to others; it’s about learning NOT to automatically say “yes.” You can recognize that this myth is present in your life if you feel pressure to please everyone. If you’re resentful that time is being taken away from fulfilling your own dreams. If you feel guilty when you say yes but don’t follow through on your commitments, or you feel indispensable and unable to delegate. The good news is that you can decide where you spend your precious time and energy! You can do this through practicing assertive self-expression – beginning with a self-honoring approach to how you use your time. Curious what “self-honoring” is and the steps to implement? Check out chapter 4 of my book.

Myth #5:  Confident women have all the answers!

This is a HUGE myth! Listen up–Confident women don’t have all the answers and they too lack confidence! Being a confident woman doesn’t mean you have all the answers. It means you’re secure enough to seek out the people, resources, and solutions you need to overcome obstacles and challenges. It means that you invite others’ support, listen thoughtfully and with an open mind, and then determine whether or not that advice will help you to fulfill your vision of success. It doesn’t mean you are not smart enough or that you should just keep suffering all alone and figure it out yourself! Get over this myth – and watch unlimited opportunities open up, not to mention, lessen your frustration and feelings of isolation!

Myth #6:  You are not that special and who are you to think you can lead changes!

It is amazing in this day and age, that women can still diminish themselves. They do this in the way they speak about themselves, how they allow others to speak about them and how they show up in their lives. Because this is a choice, then it makes sense this can be changed, and with it, the reality they can create for themselves. When women are driven by their internal, powerful voice that encourages their desire to make a difference, they can inspire incredible changes for themselves and for others they may influence. To do this, they must first trust themselves to recognize their own voice, and boldly claim their passion and what makes them special, and then step up and lead those changes. The power that unleashes is magical and can drive you to become a powerful change agent in your life!

If you see any of these myths showing up in your life, take advantage of the step-by-step process to dispel these included in my book. Added benefit–you’ll also improve your ability to take bold steps to create a more rewarding and fulfilling life!

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